How To Get A Boyfriend To Spend More Time With You

If you are one of those women that love to spend time with your boyfriend, but he would prefer to hang out with his friends more than you, there are a few ways in how to get a boyfriend to spend more time with you. One of the hardest things to do is pull your boyfriend away from his friends. You will always end up being the bad guy in these situations, and his friends will let him know how they feel every waking moment.

One of the best ways to get that extra little attention is to let him go out with his friends most of the time, but have at least one night a week where it will just be the two of you. You can set this night up to do anything the two of you might enjoy doing but make sure it is something he will also like and not just you. Depending on the personality of your boyfriend, you might plan a night to go out and have a nice romantic dinner, or maybe stay home and order pizza and play video games together.

The most important thing is to tell your boyfriend that you want to spend more time with him and work something out together. Just remember that if you are planning on spending more time with him, you can’t make him do only things that you like, and you, in turn, not do anything he likes. If you are going to drag him around the mall shopping for shoes, then you should probably be prepared to watch the playoffs with him when he gets home.

The key to spending more time together is to do things that both of you enjoy doing. Maybe you can make plans to take a nice trip together for the weekend. Romantic weekends are a great way to rekindle that affection that may have slipped by without either of you really noticing. It’s best to find a good out of the way bed and breakfast that you can stay at together. Don’t go for the high class hotels where there is too much going on around you all the time. You will spend more time arguing about what you want to do and see and less time being together.  

Finding things to do together is part of the fun. You should be able to spend a few hours just trying to figure out what you can do together to spend more time as a couple. In fact, you could make an entire day out of just trying to figure out what the two of you could do to spend more time together. Maybe have a picnic and discuss all the things that the two of you would consider doing together. Just make sure that you even all these activities out so that you are each doing something that the other person will enjoy also.

Once you break that initial barrier and start to tear down the walls of indecision and focus more on communication, you will find that the two of you will have all kinds of things to do together, and he will want to spend more time with you. His friends might not agree with him on this, but when you see that he is spending more time with you than with his friends, it will make you fall in love with him all over again. The more things the two of you have in common, the more you can do together, and the more time he will be spending with you, which is what you are looking for after all.

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