How to Get a Guy to Notice You

There are plenty of girls out there that wonder what the trick is to getting the attention of their ideal mate. There is no set secret, but there are great tips and advice to luring them in. First and foremost, you must know the type of guy you’re after. One man’s treasure is another man’s trash, so be wise in judgment.

If all you want is for a man to look at you, that doesn’t even take more than a shower, really. If you feel cute, and are looking your best, a guy will look at you. However, this advice is for something more than just a passing glance. It’s to make an impression that really sticks with them.

Every guy loves to have his ego stroked by an interesting girl, so if he starts telling jokes, don’t be scared to laugh, or insert some humor of your own into the conversation. Try to match the pace of their wit, and the competitive feeling is sure to spark something. However, if you don’t find a joke funny, don’t laugh. Most guys will be able to tell when you are faking it, and it will make them think of other things you may fake and that you must think they’re pretty sensitive. It’s already a pretty early hit to the typical ego. It will also make you seem very lame to them. If you are uncomfortable with an awkward silence, try to make their flat joke fizzle with a few missing clever words.

Don’t be afraid to challenge them. There are some guys out there that are still a bit old school, but for the most part, men today like fierce women. Definitely don’t be mean, but show you’ve got a little bite to your bark. Most men find strong and confident women not only a rarity, but very appealing. If you happen to be shy, there’s nothing wrong with that. You’ll still attract your own variety of man, but be sure to show a little backbone, lest you wind up their personal doormat.

Though most of these tips are more oriented towards conversation and interaction, one of the most important things to do is to smell nice. No guy is going to talk to you if he can’t make it through the conversation without gagging. Don’t load down on perfume, but definitely keep yourself clean smelling and pleasant looking. Even if you aren’t a “traditional” beauty, good hygiene can do wonders for you.

It is very important to be yourself on first impression, but try to keep some of it behind closed doors. Guys do tend to like simple girls, but not really. If you lay out all of your craziness on the table before you two have at least warmed up to each other, it could still spook him and send him off in another direction. If it’s something truly disagreeable, he won’t stay anyway, but small things seem bigger on a stranger.

Perhaps the one thing that the average man likes most, though, is a patient woman. Sometimes things are a little awkward for them at first, and it takes them some time to get used to you. In that time, they may fumble a little bit and trip up on their own words. You can normally tell when a guy is sincerely sorry for embarrassing you or making you feel uncomfortable. Just try to laugh off the early missteps. He’ll be grateful for it.

If you use these helpful tips properly, it won’t be hard to hit it off with your next potential mate. Remember, you don’t have to “settle” so be sure to attract the type of man you want.