How to Get a Guy to Kiss You Without Being Obvious

Years ago, the question of how to get a guy to kiss you without being obvious probably would not have come up so often. Maybe you have seen those old movies from years ago about couples dating and reaching the end of the evening on the girl’s front porch. That magical time has now arrived. The boy is shy and starts to lean in slowly to kiss his date. The girl has closed her eyes, face tilted slightly upward. Their lips almost meet and suddenly the porch light comes on. Both of them jump back guiltily, the moment now lost. This was always a rather common scene in most old movies and television shows. But do things like that still happen?

The answer to that question depends on what part of the world you live in and the way your culture views kissing. In some parts of the world, couples have never even kissed or held hands, yet their families have them marry each other. In other, more liberal and enlightened parts of the world, this would never happen.

Now, assume that you live in a part of the world where kissing is perfectly ok. You may want to know just how to get a guy to kiss you without being obvious. There are so many cute little ways to make this happen that a complete list would fill a book. However, there are some that work better than others.

Suppose you are on a first date with a new guy and you find yourself more and more attracted to him as the evening progresses. You know that you want to kiss him and you are wondering how to get that point across to him without making yourself so obvious. Get playful with him. If he’s wearing a hat, snatch it away from him and hold it behind your back. Make him come to take it from you. Once you have him that close to you, trying to reach behind your back to retrieve his hat, you have every reason to believe that he will take the hint. His arms will already be around you and his face will be rather close to yours. Sometimes a simple direct look right into his eyes will make the kiss happen.

Another way in how to get a guy to kiss you without being obvious can happen during the middle of watching a romantic movie. Usually, you will have an excuse to hold his hand and sit close to him. If the movie is the right kind, he will already have his arm around you and will be sitting close enough so that all you will need to do is turn your head ever so slightly towards him. If you are close enough, you will most likely enjoy a rather nice kiss just from the proximity.

Once you have him kissing you, if you want it to happen again, don’t be afraid to show some enthusiasm. This will always get him coming back for more, as any worry or shyness he may have had about kissing you will now have vanished.