How to Get a Guy to do What You Want

You’ve seen those women who are so happy in their relationship that they fairly glow from the inside out. They are always smiling, laughing and actually behaving romantically with their guys no matter how long they’ve been together. These are the women whose boyfriends or husbands hold the doors open for them, take their arms when they cross a street, or turn up early to pick them up after work. It’s hard to miss these couples because the guys are showing how much they love these women all the time.

The thing that stands out the most is the expression in the eyes of these women. They shine with love, contentment, and happiness. These women look younger, and exude a feeling of peace and self-confidence. You can’t help but want to have the same love that those women are enjoying. You may also want to know how they are achieving such happiness and success in their relationships. Can you really wake up every day being positive that you have a man who is waiting to give you everything you want? Actually, yes, you can get a guy to do whatever you want and have the relationship of your dreams.

It’s really not as hard as you may think to get a guy to do what you want.  First of all, you need to figure out what you want. That’s the logic of the situation. You must be definite regarding your standards before you can tell your guy. It’s fine to be a bit indecisive in other parts of your life but in your relationship, you need to be sure of what you want.

When you have figured out what you are looking for in your relationship, get your guy to do whatever you want by educating him on that very first date. Don’t drag it out until you have been seeing each other exclusively for a while before you tell him what you expect. If you do, you stand the chance of being quite disappointed.

To get a guy to do what you want, don’t tell him what you WANT. Rather tell him what you DON’T want. This may seem confusing but actually it makes perfect sense. For example, when a man asks you what sort of things you like, you tell him specifically. You have handed him the way to get to your heart. So if you have told him that you love roses and long walks at night on the beach, that’s what you will get. However, that’s ALL you will get. When he has given you roses and walked with you on the beach at night a few times, he will be done. There’s nothing different left, in his mind, to do for you. Finally, the only time you will get those roses is when he’s apologizing for something.

Now, what you want to do is tell him what you don’t want in a relationship. Tell him you don’t like guys who can’t stand up for what they really want, or tell him that you don’t waste your time playing games in a relationship. If you want an exclusive relationship, say so. Once you have told him what you don’t want, show him you mean business. For example, if he says he will pick you up at 8 PM, but shows up at 9 without calling and with a really lame excuse for being late, be wearing your pajamas and tell him you will see him another time. Most likely he will be on time when you next agree to go out with him.

Many guys find women who have standards a bit challenging. However, these standards are how to get a guy to do what you want.

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