How to Flirt with Men

There really is no secret on how to flirt with men. In fact, most men will think you are flirting even if you just glance at them. The trick is to make it seem like you aren’t flirting when you actually are. That seems like something that contradicts the whole flirting aspect, but with a little bit of practice, you will be able to flirt with all the guys you want, and they will enjoy it even more. If you are new to flirting or don’t think you are very good at it, don’t worry. You will be able to flirt with the best of them in no time at all.

The first thing to do when you are flirting with men is to smile. Guys love it when a girl smiles at them, and it will make them feel a bit giddy inside. Don’t go for the overblown family photo type smile. Instead, try for the “I’m naughty but in a good way” smile, something a bit mischievous, but more than just a smirk. If you can master this smile, you will be set every time you go out to a bar or club, and will never have to pay for another drink.

Next thing you have to know is how to dress. You may think that wearing small tight miniskirts and tube tops will get you all the guys, but the classy guys like a bit more left to the imagination. Wearing something like a dress that is just past your knees, but has the slit running partially up the side is a good bet. This gives them something to keep their eyes on while you walk around, as they will be looking to see just how far up that slit may go.

You can make just about any action into a sexy innuendo without too much difficulty. If you spot a man looking at you while you are sitting at a table with your drink, try running your fingers down the side of the glass. You will be able to tell by his facial expressions if you get it right. Most guys will immediately think you are telling them, in some way, what you want to do to them. Another good thing is to slightly lick your lips, just enough to get their attention, but not too much so they see your whole tongue sliding around. It’s the subtle aspects that they will see as a flirt.

No matter how you go about flirting with men, you should know that being cheap and a bit slutty isn’t what will get you a date. Instead, you should try for the classy and innocent role with flirting and see where that gets you. You will find that just about anything you do while in this role will guarantee you a good night out, and most of the time, you will find that men will beg you for your phone number. That is, after all, what you are looking for, isn’t it?

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