How to Flirt with a Guy the Right Way

When you are wondering how to flirt with a guy the right way, you may have experienced the following scenario: You’re there at the bar and your nerves are getting a hold of you as you approach the handsome and mysterious man ordering a strong drink. You’ve made it this far on courage alone, but you just can’t muster up anymore to say the words that you had been rehearsing in your head. You stare at him, standing close by, gaping at him while he stares at you like you’re an idiot. And you know you’ve lost that confidence as you quickly walk in the opposite direction wondering what could have been.

This sort of thing happens to a lot of girls. If it’s not the bashful behavior that does you in, it’s the incorrect type of flirting and you still wind up feeling foolish about your endeavors.

It can be hard to even approach a guy at first. A lot of this has to do with self image. If you see yourself as a loser, you will be one. Try to spend some time with yourself to find things that you like about your body and mind. Focus on these things and accentuate them.

The next time you approach a guy, spend time on what you’ll say initially, but don’t get ahead of yourself and program the entire conversation prematurely to the actual introduction. Let things flow so that you aren’t constantly trying to interrupt him to get to your next witty comment. It will make him feel like you aren’t listening to him, because you aren’t. You’re only anticipating your next line.

Be a good listener. This is a must. You must listen to what he has to say. You didn’t walk up to him just to unload on him and ignore him, did you? Let him talk, too, as it indicates interest, as long as he isn’t telling you goodbye.

Be wise in what you talk about. It’s always a good idea to be refreshing and funny, but go easy on what you joke about. Though he should be able to understand if you joke about something that offends him, knowing it isn’t personal because you don’t know him, some men can’t help but take things like that personally. So, in the way of what you talk about, do proceed with caution.

Keep touching light, as well. If he shows that he’s interested, it wouldn’t hurt to playfully push him away, or touch his arm to examine his muscle, but be absolutely positive that he’s into you.

Do not ever come on too strong. You don’t want to offer yourself up before you know what you’re offering up to. It would be wise to keep yourself from throwing “your everything” into someone that you don’t quite know yet. Resist temptation. If you make a good impression, he may want to see you again instead of just asking for a booty call. It could lead to a rather amazing first date. But if you want that, make him take you seriously and remember you. Be shocking, but not scary. Be brave, but not pushy. Find your balance and let things flow.

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